B. a dinner or wine evening. And you are one of the singles!
Going on vacation alone is not for everyone. However, if you join a tour group or choose an operator that offers single trips, you will quickly find yourself in good company and make direct contact with new people. Find out beforehand which age groups usually take part in these trips, otherwise you end up on a coffee trip with a number of nice retirees.
If you’re confident enough to sit in a bar by yourself and look out for men, go ahead. If that’s not your thing, you can also grab a friend or colleague: For example, there are a lot of people at after-work parties who don’t have a steady partner at home after work. And gay clubs are also suitable for getting to know men: Many straight people accompany their gay friends when they celebrate and you have the chance to talk to them in an informal way.
At some point our circle of friends and acquaintances remains fairly constant and you rarely meet new people. So take the opportunity to expand your social environment whenever possible: When a fellow student invites you to her flat-share party or your colleague asks you whether you are coming for her birthday, which you would normally deny because there is no one else there know Such occasions are great for meeting new men. It works even better at weddings with their romantic mood!
Dog owners are constantly approached when they go for a walk: be it by other walkers or by people who are very enthusiastic about the dog. If you don’t have a dog of your own, you can borrow one from friends or neighbors and do a few laps in the park on a nice day. With a bit of luck, you can get in touch with one or the other man here.
Speed dating is offered in most of the larger cities and may take some getting used to. With a single friend by your side, the evening can be really funny! In the worst case scenario, you both haven’t found anything, but you have a lot to laugh about afterwards. But maybe you are also lucky and you get to know someone interesting in this way!
Even if you don’t immediately succeed with these ideas: Most of the tips will allow you to broaden your horizons and try something new. Even if in the end your dream man didn’t get around, you will probably still meet some new people who you won’t want to be without in the future. And they too have male friends … 😉